With every life changing event I learn something new about myself and those around me.
Make sure you are learning, even in the midst of any struggle. You should ask: “what in the world should I be learning from this?”
I think the reason why I have been able to adapt to many things that should have broken me is because I try to squeeze the positive out of the situation.
Mannnn, I could have fallen apart while I watched the tears well up in my wife’s eyes right after the doctors told her she could be infertile.
But instead I noticed that the tears built up and did NOT roll up her rose colored cheeks. I imagine her telling the tear ducts “nope not today.”
I saw STRENGTH.
And in seeing that…I knew we would be okay. I somehow knew the doctors were wrong. I knew my 2nd child was on the way.