There is a point where you have to live life for yourself. The earlier you make this decision, the quicker your life will change.
I know some will say but “I have kids. I live for them. You sound selfish.” Yes, I may sound a little self centered but think about it this way…
Can you really give to others if you do not take care of yourself? In order to give you have to be full.
Are you on empty, trying to fill others?
As you begin to take the time necessary to make yourself happy, you will find that you now have more energy and enthusiasm to support the needs of those around you.