If you are unfulfilled or a failure in life then it may be a question of what are you using to fill yourself? Seriously. What are you inputting (reading, watching, doing) day to day? Garbage in equals garbage out. An Audi A4 S-line cannot run on regular gas it needs premium.
Do you want to be a sports car or a mini van? Choose. Then select the type of gas you need to run at your best. You are not a failure, you just need to readjust your input. And maybe get a tuneup or oil change every once in a blue.